Do we underestimate the glory of the ordinary? Bobby Bostic spent 27 years in prison for a crime he committed when he was 16. Now he finds everyday life full of beauty.
What you notice after 10,000 nights in a cell
Do we underestimate the glory of the ordinary? Bobby Bostic spent 27 years in prison for a crime he committed when he was 16. Now he finds everyday life full of beauty.
On 9 November last year, Bobby Bostic walked out of a prison in MissouriA state in the Midwestern region of the United States.. A crowd of supporters were waiting to welcome him - among them a retired judge named Evelyn Baker. Now his friend, she had sent him to jail with the words "You will die in the Department of Corrections."
Bostic had had a bad start in life. Growing up in a deprived family, he started drinking at 10 and taking drugs at 12. By his early teens he was stealing cars.
Things came to a head in December 1995. He and his friend Donald Hutson had been drinking and smoking cannabis when they saw two cars and a truck pull up nearby. The two boys decided to rob the occupants.
During the robbery two men were shot at and one was grazed by a bullet.
After fleeing the scene, the boys robbed another woman and stole her car. They were soon arrested and charged with 17 offences.
Because Bostic showed no remorse, Evelyn Baker - Missouri's first black female judge - sentenced him to a total of 241 years.
Today she says that to sentence a teenager to life imprisonment is "ridiculous". She began to have misgivings after reading a scientific article about how young people cannot fully assess the consequences of their actions because their brains are still developing: "But for the same reason, they also have greater capacity for reform."
In prison Bostic became a different person. He read widely and gained a degree from Missouri State University.
In 2016, the US Supreme CourtThe highest court within the hierarchy of courts in most legal jurisdictions. ruled that no juvenile offender should face a life sentence without paroleThe release of a prisoner before the end of their sentence, on the promise of good behaviour. . But the Missouri courts argued that Bostic was not serving a life sentence, just a series of very long ones.
Finally, in 2021, the state's law was changed to allow parole to prisoners like Bostic after 15 years. At his hearing, Evelyn Baker spoke on his behalf.
"I'm still wrestling with a few things," Bostic says. "But other than that, life out here is beautiful, every day. I go through the fridge and look at the variety of things to pick from. A soak in the bath tub - I haven't taken a bath in 27 years! I don't take nothing for granted, nothing."
Out of prison, he says, "It's just good things. People smiling. Little kids waving at you. It's like, this is what life is... This is how things are supposed to be."
<h5 class=" eplus-wrapper" id="question"><strong>Do we underestimate the glory of the ordinary?</strong></h5>
Yes: We get used to our surroundings too easily and fail to notice all the wonderful things around us. We should remember how amazing it is to look at a flower, jump into water or travel in a car.
No: The things that matter in life - that stay with us and change our outlook - are the extraordinary ones. The rest just clutter up our minds, so we should try to ignore them as far as possible.
Or... What is ordinary to one person may be amazing to another. One advantage of spending time with people from other places and other cultures is discovering what we take for granted and they do not.
Missouri - A state in the Midwestern region of the United States.
Supreme Court - The highest court within the hierarchy of courts in most legal jurisdictions.
Parole - The release of a prisoner before the end of their sentence, on the promise of good behaviour.
What you notice after 10,000 nights in a cell
Glossary
Missouri - A state in the Midwestern region of the United States.
Supreme Court - The highest court within the hierarchy of courts in most legal jurisdictions.
Parole - The release of a prisoner before the end of their sentence, on the promise of good behaviour.